Rufus T. Firefly wrote:MurphOnMillerAve wrote:It was heaven there. Absolute heaven.
I liked the University. They gave us money, they gave us the facilities and we didn't have to produce anything!
And then you were cast out, a fallen angel unleashed upon the unsuspecting youth of the world.....unrestrained, unrepentant, and unconforming to any and all standards.
Oh wait, maybe that's me,![]()
1845? Hmmmm.......1st college I was at was founded in 1832 in PA. Couldn't afford to go there now!
(1.) I didn't feel "cast out" at all; rather, well prepared to be an adult in a challenging world, replete with Vietnam looming over everything.
(2.) "Fallen angel"? Well, no angel, but "fallen" , ah, well , ah, er, not for me to say....
(3.)"Unleashed upon unsuspecting youth of the world.." Yes! Yes, indeed! I became an elementary school teacher and, then, of high school. And boy-o-boy was I unleashed, and were they unsuspecting! They weren't sure what hit 'em - a young man with traditional (old?) standards for decorum and academic standards.
(4.) "...unrepentant," well, I was sorry for none of it, being there at university (except maybe for that last time I got fall-down-beer-drunk on a Saturday night and found myself still puking on Monday morning. Never did that again. In fact, I still abhor beer. And never allowed myself to get drunk again.)
(5.) I was able (barely) to afford to attend ($3,800 in 1962 !!) my university, but to help myself earn that sum, I worked during summers at an amusement park (Kennywood), and on-campus, being a servant in a sorority and cleaning film for classrooms; then, learning Cardio-pulmonary Therapy at a nearby hospital (Mercy). Initially, mother gave me $10,000 cash, upon graduation from high school, in 1962, pushing it across the kitchen table to me, in a brown envelope, saying, "Here, Frankie, now, go buy yourself that Cadillac convertible you always wanted and take a trip to California, or give yourself and your friends one-heck-of-a party, or go to college."
The decision was mine. The party could wait. The car would wait. But college was my ticket to the rest of my life.
That college changed me from a boy to an adult.

